Last night, my wife reminded me that it was exactly one year ago that we got into our car accident.
It was hard to imagine with it being in the windy and cold 40’s yesterday while a year ago we were cruising with the top down in the sunshine — it just doesn’t seem like it was the same time of year.
But honestly, it’s one of those points of reference that I’m able to immediately go back to. When I think about all of the things we’ve accomplished since then, it makes me feel pretty good.
No, I’m not going to go all wishy-washy here and talk about how a near death experience changed my life for the better. Hardly.
It wasn’t a near death experience in my head — my thoughts as we were sliding sideways (and backwards) towards the guardrail were:
- Please don’t let another car hit us.
- Why aren’t we slowing down – my foot *is* on the brake!
- There’s plenty of shoulder for us to stop before the guardrail.
- Oh crap — this is going to hurt!
When the car finally hit the guardrail, and stopped, it turned out that we didn’t hit any other cars and there really wasn’t enough of a shoulder. Oh yeah, we weren’t hurt either.
Since then, going back to my reference point, the thing that I notice that has changed the most, physically, is the exterior of our house. It’s all new — and somehow we managed to pay for it too.
Over this last year, things even got comfy enough that I threw in the towel and stopped working so much (outside of the office).
Quitting the hockey team was the first big step — dumping a long time difficult and frustrating client was the next. Can’t tell you how nice it was on Sunday to return from a weekend away and not have a single business related email in my inbox. Not one.
That’s been a huge change for me — and in just one year.